Have you ever made it to the top and realized that you were just as happy at the bottom?
Have you ever forsaken all to achieve a goal and found no joy anywhere?
Have you ever snuck over to the greener pastures, and realized, when you got there, that contentment abided for the blink of an eye?
Have you ever worked and toiled for what you dreamed would make a difference, looked back and all you can remember is work and toil?
What happened to the happiness? What happened to the joy? What happened to the anticipated contentment?
Are you really any happier, more joyful, or content than when you had little?
When you talk about your achievements (the things in life that you’re the most proud of), do they all start with:
I undertook… I built… I made… I bought… I owned… I amassed… I became…?
Many of us fall into that category. Our culture calls for us to achieve, and to acquire, and to grow, and to have.
King Solomon fell into the same boat.
He writes, “I undertook great projects: I built houses for myself and planted vineyards. I made gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them. I made reservoirs to water groves of flourishing trees. I bought male and female slaves and had other slaves who were born in my house. I also owned more herds and flocks than anyone in Jerusalem before me. I amassed silver and gold for myself, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I acquired men and women singers, and a harem as well—the delights of the heart of man. I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me. In all this my wisdom stayed with me.
I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my work, and this was the reward for all my labor. Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun. “
I heard a person talking the other day about his missionary experience in some of the poor countries. He talked about how some of these families have nothing; they have little to eat, almost no possessions, and meager shelter. But, they are extremely happy because they have Jesus in their lives, and because their children are saved. Their family finds joy, happiness, and contentment in serving and giving to the Lord.
Sometimes we get so caught up in the things that we do to make a better life for ourselves and our families, that we miss what is really important. Years, and years, and years can slip by as we toil, and then we look back and see that it is was all like ‘chasing after the wind, that nothing was gained’ and all that should be cherished has faded dim.
We need to reevaluate what is important. We need to put our attention to that which is of eternal value; treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal (Mat 6:20) We need to stop obsessing with what we can do to better the lives of ourselves and families. We need to start waking up in the morning and praying that God will open our eyes, and hearts, to the opportunities to make a real difference in someone’s life.
We need to stop working so hard to bless ourselves and start asking for God to bless us so that we can be a blessing to someone else. Instead of working overtime to save money to buy that car, or new refrigerator, or smart phone, why not use those resources to bless someone else. God knows what your needs are, and he will provide for them, as you put Him first. (Luke 12:22-31, Phi 4:19) He will also provide you with provision so that you can bless others. (2 Cor 9:10)
For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and forfeit his life? (Mat 16:26)
Don’t be as Solomon did.
When asked about your achievements (the things in life that you’re the most proud of), let them all start with:
I beheld… I helped… I was witness to… I blessed… I led… I taught… I prayed… I lived in the supernatural provision of the Father.